From Heartfelt to Hurt: The Other Side of Love

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Falling in love: It can happen to anyone, even when you’re just keeping it low-key in your sweatpants! The media’s all about that perfect-couple life, making us feel like we’re missing out if we’re not boo’d up. Scrolling through those glam pics of happy couples can make you wonder if you’re the one missing the spark. Then suddenly you meet that person (or persons) who just gets you, and suddenly you’re all about connection and those cozy vibes.
But, let’s keep it 100: love can take a sharp turn.
One minute you’re on a high from those sweet moments, and the next, it feels like you’ve hit a wall, leaving you reeling with unexpected heartbreak. OutKast was right: “You can plan a pretty picnic, but you can’t predict the weather.”
So, what’s next? Where’s the guide for navigating this wild love thing? I must have missed that distribution.
If your love life feels messier than those curated online feeds, and you’re feeling lost in the heart department, know you’re not alone. I’ve kept this quick, so you can get back to the good stuff. You’ve got a million things on your plate. Just remember, you’re the expert in your own story. Hope this brings you a little clarity!

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The National Domestic Violence Hotline:
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Multnomah County DV / SV / ST Resources:
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